Update and other stuff. #4

HIYA!

Did ya miss me last week? I have never been so busy in my life as I have been this week. If we’re friends and you haven’t heard from me or if I’ve ignored your text please accept my apologies but ya girl has been non-stop. 

We had the biggest Black Friday sale we’ve ever had at work and it just went mental, beyond what anyone was expecting and it wiped. me. out. Sunday and Monday were both 12 hours days. Thank goodness for Deliveroo (and my bosses for paying ;)) 

If I wasn’t at work, I was at home doing my own orders for my own business, picking out kitchens and bathrooms for our new home or sleeping. Literally nothing else. My car is a TIP from eating literally 3 meals a day in there all week, generally just feel like this week has lasted for the legnth of 3. On top of all of that, some stuff in my personal life kicked off a bit too. Because why not, perfect timing! 

To be honest, I’ve actually felt a lot more positive this week than I did in my last blog despite the manic crazy week I’ve just had, it made me realise that I can actually handle a bit more than I let myself believe. Also that no matter what life is going to throw at me, as long as I keep my mind healthy and my mental health in a good place then I’m gonna survive and I’ll get through it. 

Also, having really good positive people around you who build you up and tell you how great you are doing when you need to hear it, is a plus. The people you surround yourself with is the most important thing in your life, I genuinely believe this, I’m a firm believer in cutting out toxic family or friends if it needs to be done. I believe everyone should get a second chance, a chance to redeem themselves, but if they don’t, then don’t waste your precious damn time on them. 

My twenties have gone so quickly and I’m only half way through, I definitely haven’t got time to waste on people who don’t add anything to my life.

 OH, another thing I don’t have time to waste on and something I’ve really wanted to speak on recently is judging other people’s lives. Another huge life lesson that has smacked me in the face in my twenties, is learning to not care so much. In particular I’ve seen a lot of judgemental bullshit on the gender neutral conversation, quite honestly it baffles me. Why on EARTH does it bother some people if someone else identifies as gender neutral or anything else for that matter. I’m genuinely shocked that people get so angry about it. Just live your own damn life, never mind what the next person is doing, it’s not effecting you!!!????!!!! 

More on that another day, I’m sure. 

All in all, I’ve actually not had a bad week to be honest, it’s been absolutely mental, but I did it with the best work colleagues and the best boyfriend and best friend to pep talk me when I was slacking, what more could a gal want. 

Peace and love 

Ayme x